How to be realistic

A common saying when setting goals is that 'you have to be realistic'.

Usually when people say this, they are inferring that your goals should not be too far-fetched and rather should be based on what is practical considering the current circumstances.

However, this approach tends to dismiss the significance of each individual's influence over the current circumstances.

Who decides what is far-fetched and what is attainable? We decide that assessment based on our own perception of a situation. If our mindset is pessimistic, everything can seem unattainable, and as a result, everything WILL be unattainable.

So how can you truly be realistic? By recognizing that to a large extent you define reality based on your outlook and level of conviction.

Deception Pass - May 2013